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God and Mother Mary Blessings I am leading new life after my kidney transplant. In this article I am telling you about my real kidney donor. Two years we had been waiting for my kidney real donor. I had been taken dialysis for two years and that journey was really painful.
Kindy failure all around darkness and death is there no hope. No one come to help me, all people know and said my life was no more long. But that time my beloved and my and our real hero my cousin brother stepped forward and provide me unforgettable gifts and the second new life.
In my practical life my real kidney donor selfless organ donated bring me in light life from death and darkness. It is not only medical procedure but it’s about hope, courage and incredible power of generosity. Lets start to know in practical life real hero and how its possible.
Living with kidney disease
I had been founded CKD in 2004. That time I had been taken medicine and others, follow up treatment as usual. I had been meet with my nephrologist regularly. When first time I knew this kidney disease that time my health was not that much well. After taken medicine for one year I got feel better.
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One day I asked my nephrologist that what was my kidney condition. That time nephrologist told me that my kidney conditions were better now and well now. But nephrologist consultant told me to take regular follow up treatment and kidney routine check up.
When he told me that you are quite well now and my kidney condition quite good. From that time I did not continue my kidney follow up treatment and did not regular continue my kidney regular routine check up. From the year 2010, I completely did not continue my regular kidney check up.
I totally had stopped kidney follow up treatment. Even I did not take high blood pressure medicine and also did not follow up reducing read meat and others diet chart of CKD. Why I did not taken . I did not know that CKD, I mean kidney disease never recover. Kidney disease means CKD is day by day go to the worst stage.
Anyone can control it but never recover CKD. That was my deepest wrong decision and illiteracy. Really I never know that kidney disease never recover. So that in 2014 in August, my two kidney gone damaged.
Dialysis experience
From 2014 month of August I started dialysis. First time I started by neck catheter and after one month I had been taken fistula at my left hand. After One moth I had been taken kidney dialysis by fistula. My left hand I had been fixed fistula for kidney dialysis. Kidney dialysis was very painful for my life.
I had been taken kidney dialysis for two years. Not only dialysis I had been taken first time my life human blood. I had been taken epoetin injections to increase blood and also different kinds of calcium medicine and lots of blood and others regular test. Per week I had been spend 10,000 BDT Taka.
In Dialysis time I never go alone first three month even I did not walk alone. That time I was too week that I did not take food alone in first three month. After Four month I had gotten little bit energy to walk and take food alone. Every month I had been spent 35000 thousand plus taka. But there are no alternative treatment for kidney failure patient only Dialysis.
Awaiting Kidney transplant
My family members and my friends and also relatives and neighbors were try many times to find out a kidney donor. Who are eligible and willing to donate a kidney for me. But there were so rare to find out and willingly come donate a kidney for me. But I trust on God and Mary Mother and continue to pray that today or tomorrow I would be get a donor.
I hardly to say all you who are read this that in kidney dialysis time all time I thought that what sin I had done that Jesus Christ providing me that type of sorrows. Kidney CKD patient and kidney damaged patient must take dialysis. Only one treatment for every kidney dialysis patient.
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But I am waiting for one kidney donor who will come willingly. We had been tried to manage in our family members. Though there were have little. But they were avoid to donate. They were showing many reason. In a word they were not agree and not positive to donate kidney for me.
Though I disappointed about show their negative behavior that my family relatives did not want to donate kidney. But never left trust on God and Mary Mother. Just awaiting for a kidney donor.
Finding a Kidney Donor
Two years I had been taken kidney dialysis and also searched kidney donor. We had been find but get five to six person. First donor was Parvez Tudu form Dinajpur age 24 years. He came willingly to donate a kidney for me in Dhaka . But his blood group was not same to me. And also the tissue cross match is not ok.
second donor Russel Maji, from Jalchatra Madhupur Tangail. Age was 20 years same case before I told you already. Third donor from Jalchatra Madhupur Tangial. Barnish maker Md. Yakub age 40 above and his kidney was not that much perfect. Forth donor was from Beribaid Madhupur Tangail. His age was 50 up. All examination was on going that time he had disagree for his children protest.
Fifth donor was Bijon Jesper Mrong from Mariom Nagor Jhinaighati Sherpur. His age was 40 above. We game him about 5 Lac taka. In vellore India he went in CMC there one examination done. That examination was 24 hours Blood Pressure measurements. That examination showed that Bijon Jesper Morng had high blood Pressure. For that time doctor told us he has high blood pressure.
Doctor discourage us also Bijon Mrong that this was too risk for donor that donor had high blood pressure. In 2015 we return to Home country form India Vellore CMC and searching again.
Organ Donation Search kidney match
There were many people came but finnally My cousin brother came to my mother and told that he will be kidney donor. Willingly my cousin came to my mother and told that he will donate a kidney. Sudently My mother and his elder sister surprise. Couse my cousin brother age was 34 years.
My cousin brother village was Telkhi Jalchatra Madhupur Tangail. But was doing job at Dhaka. So my mother brought to me and discussed with each others. We were test different essential all kinds of test and finally we got our final kidney donor.
My real Kindy Donor
Finnally we had been taken real kidney donor. My Real Kidney donor name Bhutto Nokreck age was 26 year and gender is male. Once upon time my mother had been taken upset and cried for me. That was happened in Dhaka city.
That time my donor show that and got and felt sorrow. The donor I mean Bhutto’s mind was burning to save me by donating a kidney. I think God gave birth to greatest people in Bhutt’s mind. In my life Organ donor hero is Bhtuto Nokreck.
In Bangladesh We had been taken all kinds of regular and essential kidney test of my donor. My Real kidney donor is Bhutto Nokreck had no diabetes and no high blood pressure and no others bad condition of health.
Challenges of Real Kindy Donor
From Dhaka We had been move to India West Bengal. We had been made passport and went to India West Bengal, RNT Hospoital Mukundapur Kolkata. Robindratnath Tagor International institute of Cardiac Sciences Hospital . All our blood and others organ test were complete.
Last time when finally speaking with my cousin brother Bhutto Nokreck what were his opinion about giving the Kidney . That time my real donor my cousin brother told me that he was 100% agreed to donate a kidney to me and save me ultimately.
But when finally my donor’s mother and his wife come to know that Bhutoo Nokreck had been decided to give me I mean donate a kidney that time his mother and wife totally protest and raised an objection. They were totally disagreed to donate a kidney of Bhutoo .
My donor mother and wife had been agreed to suit. My donor’s wife also told that she would be divorced his husband. And if my donor donate kidney his wife told him that she would never stay with him next time in family bonding.
After all matter come to know I am disappointed and upset again. I am now helpless and going to die situation. But my cousin brother he is fit and he has nice family. I hope so and next time finally we were talk my donor Bhutoo Nokreck. I said to my donor what would be his final decision. Finally We asked you what was his final decision.
My real hero kidney donor told me that he was promised and ultimately decided that do or die he would be donate me kidney and save my life.
But in our country my mother and my donor elder sister Eva di had been discussed with my donor mother and wife. My kidney donor’s mother and wife had been given some condition. So my mother accepted that condition. After that there were no objections and protest.
After all had been ok my donor guardian Eva and my mother went to Criminal court to face Judge for some answer question in front of the Judge. That time Judge had been asked that really Bhutto Nokreck autonomously given to a organ kidney to me for save my life? Or they insisted Bhutto to given a kidney?
But my real donor told that willingly he give me a kidney and save me and there were no forced or insist. Finlay the criminal court Judge recommended court NOC. NOC form health ministry, foreign ministry, law and order minisntry from Bangladesh and NOC from Kolkata Bangladesh High commision all kinds or NOC collected .
And all kinds of donor and my medical documents and NOC all collected and my Kolkata medical documents and consultant agreements totally all kinds of kidney transplanted documents were summited to approve and allow into the Kolkata Health ministry.
When finally confirmed from Health ministry of Kolkata and approved us to transplant procedure. But from Health ministry of kolkata apporval came in 10 days latter. Here I also mention that every day in Kolkata we had been prayed every day at night after taken our night food.
But our deeply trust on God and Mary Mother helped us to successfully completed the kidney transplant.
We had been stayed in kolkata Mukundapur Cooperatives residential area by rented a flat. That flat monthly rental fee was 20000/ Rupees , twenty thousand rupees.
Transplant surgery experience
After all completed Our Kidney transplant had been successfully completed. I did not realize how my operation heled. My realization had been come and my sense came to me when I was at ICU. When Doctor and operation expert nurses and doctor called me by my name.
That time I had been founded at ICU bed. Two nurse providing medicine . I can’t eat for two days. After two days latter they prove soft foods to me but I did not eat normally that. After 5 Days latter I had been taken normal food. After kidney transplanted I had been staying ICU for 14 Days. In 15 Days latter I had been released from ICU.
But my real donor released from ICU in 5 Days latter. After operation my real donor sense had been come litter bit take time. Our guardian were little bit anxious about that matter that time. But Blessing of God and Mother Mary the sense of our donor came and easily lead normal life in 7 days.
My real kidney donor easily move hear and there in about 15 days. In kidney operation case I saw that kidney donor had no struggle face in life. But who are recipient they had suffer for long time in life time. I am struggling till now. Not only I there are so many kidney transplanted recipient had been taken struggle long time.
Organ transplant experience is really new experience in my life and now leading new life and in new way. Every day I have to take medication in time to time and also keep healthy life and neat and clean life all day long. There are many rules and binding I have to face and cross many new binding and rules in my life now.
Now my Real Kidney donor life
My real kidney donor is working and leading normal life. He is now working a drive in an company. Every day he is doing his job 10 to 12 hours per day. He is now a driver. Maximum time he have a long drive for company work. Every day he is working there are no getting problem. Some time I talked with my kidney donor over phone.
There are no getting problem his is now and leading normal life as usual. I am telling you that as kidney donor there are no problem. Anyone can donate kidney for kidney patient if he have ability to donate.
My donor had been fit and health to donate a kidney and there were no binding to donate a kidney. Till now my kidney donor is keep fit. And in mind he is fresh all time till now.
He is energetic and save other life minded. He is positive and all time active’s to help others and help full minded. He was determined to save my life. For his kindness I got new life. There are so many relative and friend and family members but no one come forward to donate kidney for me.
But My real hero, Real Kidney donor my cousin brother Bhutto Nokerck willingly come and donate determinedly a kidney and give me a new life. I never forget my cousin brother Bhutoo Nokreck in my new life.
In this article I shared my kidney transoplate story to you . Hope who are healty and fit and have well minded you may come foward to donate kidney to CKD patient and save a life and give a new life.
Who will donor I hope that you may give a gift to others person a new life who are really helpless. God will keep you in best place and give light in you life all time.
I am greatfull to my real kidney donor Mr Bhutoo Nokrek. Who really our and my hero and real kidney donor in my life. I got new life and leading new life only for my Real Kidney donor. Thank You so much My real kidney donor Mr Bhutoo Nokreck.